Today I received a text message from my friend Larry (“LD”), one he obviously sent to several people, and a follow-up to a private message I had received from him several days ago, explaining his situation.
“Ok everyone this is the message I have been trying to avoid but I am out of options. So here goes. As most of u know I made a move at the first of the month back to ny. Well things went tits up from the start. We had car problems on the way up. We get that sorted and we get here only to find that the place we had secured to stay at decided that we couldn’t stay there. So for the last 3 weeks now we have been trying our best to sort ourselves out. We contacted dss for emergency help and they turned us away. We have scratched and clawed to try and get things sorted and have failed. We have been now officially homeless for about three weeks now with no shower, no Internet to look for work, nothing. So all we want now is to get home or at least out of ny. So I ask all my friends to pull together and help us get out of new York and get to a place where we can help ourselves survive be it back in Texas or Indiana, but somewhere we can have a chance to survive because it isn’t here. So please if u are willing to help me my mom and 14yr old brother get away and have a chance at life please let me know. I know times are tough for everyone but I hope someone of u guys can help out as we are homeless now and living in my car that is out of gas. Thank you.”
LD is too proud to ask for help, which is how I know he is desperate at this point. After his original [private] message to me I set up a fundraiser with GiveForward, per some advice from “The Friendly Atheist,” Hemant Mehta. So please, please, if you can donate even a little bit that would be greatly appreciated. I just want my friend to come back home at this point. If you cannot afford to make a donation, please spread the word.
The “Stranded in New York” fundraiser at GiveForward is set up so that donations will be sent directly to LD’s Paypal account.
If I had to pick my three favorite charities, they’d probably be the World Wildlife Fund, Human Rights Campaign, and Toys For Tots, in that order. Easily, the charity which receives the most of my money is the WWF. If I’m a small-time philanthropist, I’m a big-time whatever-the-term-similar-to-philanthropy-but-pertaining-to-animals-is. Seriously, is there a word for that? Zoophiliac has sexual connotations so I’d prefer not to use it. Anyway, the point is that I give a lot of money annually (including regular automatic monthly donations and irregular sporadic donations) to the World Wildlife Fund.
This is why I’ve chosen to “represent” WWF with the SocialVibe widget. For those of you unaware of what SocialVibe is or does, here’s a brief summary directly from their website:
With SocialVibe, individuals make a positive, measurable impact for the charity of their choice just by completing branded activities. In just over a year’s time, the SocialVibe community has raised over $700,000 for over forty different non-profits.
In other words, you and I go to the SocialVibe page, choose our favorite charity, and then complete free quizzes or surveys (which I’ve never seen ask for any personal information) submitted by big-name brands. Those brands then make a small donation to your chosen charity simply because you took a minute (seriously, they never really take longer than that) of your time to complete a quick, simple activity.
With that all said, you may click the widget located at the very bottom of any page, next to the RSS icon, to complete one of those activities. Ideally it’d be in the sidebar, but I’ve noticed that the items in the sidebar are only visible when visiting the main page. In any case, it is what it is. Every little bit counts toward WWF who are working to slow the production of dangerous and harmful greenhouse gases. If you could please just do one activity, as long as you’re visiting my site anyway. Any and all help is appreciated. Thanks!
For a long time I’ve been an avid supporter of the Human Rights Campaign and the fight to grant equal rights to the LGBT community. Just the other day I learned my friends at LUSH Cosmetics have partnered with the Freedom to Marry campaign to encourage the US Government to pass the Respect for Marriage Act, which would effectively undo the Defense of Marriage Act, which denies LGBT couples the right to marry.
Along with the right to marry, there are 1,138 rights straight couples have, but which are denied to the LGBT community. Let me say it again in italics: that’s one thousand, one hundred thirty-eight rights that straight couples are allowed but gay couples are not. Here’s a .pdf file that outlines all one thousand, one hundred thirty-eight rights the gay community is denied.
Please take forty seconds of your time today to sign LUSH’s Freedom to Marry petition and pledge your support to the campaign. If you have an extra minute, I encourage you to make a donation to Freedom to Marry.